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讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

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讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?
《歡樂頌2》開播第一集,很多人都把關注點放在了安迪度假期間換了幾套衣服上。

我可以告訴你,一共九套。

 

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

 

雖然每一套都很美,但我覺得更動人的是這一幕。

 

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

 

從《歡樂頌》第一季開始,安迪就是知書達理、成功女性的代表。當你走進她家的時候就知道她和其他幾個姑娘的區別。

 

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

 

無論是臥室還是工作的地方,你都可以看見滿滿一柜子的書。反觀樊勝美、邱瑩瑩、關雎爾,一屋子的化妝品、衣服、包包,其實她們不是沒有書,只是對她們來說,書這種物件出場的概率少之又少。

 

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

 

當然,我們可以把一部分的原因歸咎為另外三個姑娘沒有這樣的條件,但是能不能反過來理解,正是因為安迪更加熱衷于學習,才獲得了她今天的生活和地位?

 

你看,同樣是遇到麻煩,樊勝美糾結、邱瑩瑩抱怨、關雎爾軟弱,只有安迪冷靜地向知識尋求幫助。

 

有一次奇點提到安迪在論壇上與人吵架,頭一天還不知道的事情到第二天就可以很好地解釋說明,并整理了自己一套對這件事情的認識。安迪做了什么?很簡單的四個字:學習+總結。

 

這樣的場景發生過不止一次。

 

安迪本身是金融領域的好手,長期在國外工作讓她在回國之后還要重新學習國內的稅務和法律。她不但沒有覺得吃力,還拿出了最清晰的認知和最準確的判斷,讓新下屬心服口服。

 

甚至在被鄰居騷擾的情況下,她也能用書本上的知識,把別人懟得啞口無言。

 

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

 

安迪說:不管多忙,她每天都要抽出兩個小時來學習。

 

女人和女人之間的差距,并不是每天這短短的兩個小時,而是日積月累下的兩千個小時乃至兩萬個小時。

 

一天不讀書,你和別人的區別或許只是少知道了一個有趣的段子,一年不讀書、十年不讀書,你和別人之間就是涵養與氣質的天壤之別了。

 

很多人說:“我不求做安迪那樣的女人,我讀那么多書,一是記不住,二是沒用處。

 

我會說:“讀了就忘是多么正常的一件事情,想必你也記不得三個月前的某一個星期一,你吃了什么菜。但是起碼在那個星期一,你沒有餓肚子,吃下去的東西也成為了你身體需要的養分。

 

讀書也是一樣,哪怕一本書你讀了以后忘得干干凈凈,可只要有那么一刻,這本書里的一句話、一個詞給了你的生活、工作一丁點的啟發,它的使命就完成了。

 

書到用時方恨少,今天多讀了一頁書,明天就少一句求人的話。

 

有個姑娘向我討教怎么樣能成為一個更有底氣、更吸引人的女性。

 

我說:“不少人會告訴你應該先學化妝,因為臉會漂亮;或者先學穿衣,因為人靠衣裝。但我想說,如果你什么都沒有,那就先讀書吧。你或許認為,女人最終還是要回歸到家庭相夫教子、柴米油鹽,何苦讀那么多書。

 

讀書不是目的,而是一種過程,潛移默化里包容了你生活的全部。

 

我想,作為一個女人,就算真的變成家長里短、瑣碎繁復。大家都是工作,你能走得更遠;都有家庭,你有更充實的生活;都有孩子,你的孩子則更有教養。

 

有個段子說:世界上有三類人,男人、女人、女博士。太有文化的女人不受歡迎。

 

可是你想想,跟一個整天罵街的女人、一個游手好閑的女人、或者是一個出口成臟的女人比起來,一個知書達理、優雅大方的女博士應該迷人得多。說女人讀書沒用的男人,通常都是害怕女人太優秀的那點玻璃心在作祟罷了。

 

我媽嫁給我爸的時候,我的外公外婆全都去世了。一個沒有娘家的女人出嫁,很多人都以為她會吃盡苦頭。

 

然而現實是,我的奶奶,也就是我媽的婆婆對她非常的尊重。她是個醫生,學校教給了她細致與知識,讀書則給了她氣度與涵養。

 

她和我爸結婚三十多年,跟婆家的人不爭、不搶、不鬧,哪怕奶奶偶爾挑刺兒,她只管把事情做好,把話說好,最后讓別人無刺可挑。

 

工作有條不紊,家務也是一絲不茍,即便和我爸吵架,從不會爭得面紅耳赤。或許讀書不能教給為人她處事的方法,但讀書給了她平心靜氣的態度。

 

一個挑不出毛病的兒媳婦,婆婆自然尊重。

 

讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

 

我媽對我說:“別看我沒有娘家也沒有嫁妝,但讀書得來的明智就是我最好的嫁妝。

 

你要記住,讀書不是為了讓你富裕,而是讓你沉著。讀書不是為了讓你看得見繁華,而是讓你耐得住寂寞。一個人可以沒有富庶的生活,但不能沒有富庶的生命。

 

我從不認為讀書的女人會比那些熱衷穿衣打扮的女人高貴。畢竟,外表決定了兩個人之間有沒有好感。但是內涵卻決定了兩個人會不會在一起;三觀更決定了兩個人能在一起多久。

 

讀書當然不會讓你成為安迪,千萬個女人里都難有一個安迪。但至少,讀書能讓你成為更好的自己。

 

讀書多的女人,即便成為了全職太太,也更懂得如何平衡家庭與自我增值二者之間的關系。

 

女人要讀書,為的是成為一個有溫度、懂情趣、會思考的人,讓你的生活有更多的選擇權。為的是不遇到你不想遇到的人,不用和討厭的人在一起。

 

有了選擇,才有了尊嚴,有了尊嚴,才能選擇自己喜歡的人。

 

書中自有顏如玉,好的女人就如同一本書。歲月雕琢了她的細膩與處事,讀書升華了她的氣質與莊重。

 

愛讀書的女人,總不會沒人愛。



讀書和不讀書的女人,究竟差在哪?Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?
"Happy Song 2" launch the first episode, many people put the focus on the Andy holiday period for several sets of clothes.

I can tell you a total of nine sets.


Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?


Although each set is beautiful, but I think it is more moving this scene.


Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?


From the beginning of the first season of "Ode to joy", Andy is the representative of the successful woman. When you go into her house, you know the difference between her and several other girls.


Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?

Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?


Whether you are in the bedroom or where you work, you can see the book full of a cupboard. In contrast, Fan Shengmei, Qiu Yingying, Guan Juer, a room of cosmetics, clothes, bags, in fact, they are not no book, but for them, the book this kind of object appearance is rare.


Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?


Of course, we can blame some of the reasons for the other three girls do not have such conditions, but can not be understood in turn, it is because Andy is more keen to learn, only to get her life and status today?


You see, the same trouble, Fan Shengmei tangled, Qiu Yingying complain, Guan Ju Seoul weak, only Andy calmly to seek help from the knowledge.


There is a singular point that Andy in the forum with people quarrel, the first day do not know the things to the next day can be a good explanation, and sort out their own set of understanding of this matter. What did Andy do? Very simple four words: learning + summary.


This scene has occurred more than once.


Andy itself is a good player in the financial field, long-term work abroad to let her return to the country after the re-study of domestic tax and law. She not only did not feel difficult, but also took out the most clear understanding and the most accurate judgments, so that new subordinates convinced.


Even in the case of harassment by neighbors, she can use the knowledge of the book, the others were speechless.


Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?


Andy said: no matter how busy, she every day to take out two hours to learn.


The gap between a woman and a woman is not a short two hours a day, but two thousand hours or even twenty thousand hours.


Do not read the day, the difference between you and others may only know less about a funny, do not read a year, ten years do not read, you and others is between the conservation and temperament of the world of difference.


Many people said: "I do not want to do Andy like a woman, I read so many books, one can not remember, the second is useless.


I will say, "What is the normal thing to read, and you must remember that you can not remember the food on a Monday, three months ago, but at least on that Monday you are not hungry, What you eat is also the nutrient you need for your body.


Reading is the same, even if a book you forget to forget after the clean, as long as there is a moment, this book in a word, a word to your life, work a little bit of inspiration, its mission finished.


Book to use when the side hate less, read more than a book today, tomorrow, a few words to ask for help.


How can a girl ask me how to become a more emboldened, more attractive woman.


I said: "Many people will tell you that you should first make up the makeup, because the face will be beautiful; or to learn to wear clothes, because people rely on clothing, but I want to say, if you have nothing, then read it. That women will eventually return to the family of husband and wife, rice and salt, why hard to read so many books.


Reading is not the purpose, but a process, subtle all inclusive of your life.


I think, as a woman, even if it really become short in the parents, trivial complicated. Everyone is working, you can go farther; have a family, you have more fulfilling life; have children, your child is more upbringing.


There is a son said: There are three types of people in the world, men, women, female doctor. Too cultural woman is unpopular.


But you think, with a woman screaming all day, a woman who is idle, or a woman who exports a dirty woman, a well-known doctor, elegant generous female doctor should be much more charming. Said the woman reading a useless man, usually afraid of the woman is too good that point of the glass heart at work trouble.


When my mother marries my dad, my grandparents all die. A woman without her family married, many people think she will suffer.


But the reality is that my grandmother, that is, my mother-in-law is very respectful to her. She is a doctor, the school taught her meticulous and knowledge, reading gave her tolerance and conservation.


She and my dad married for more than 30 years, with her husband's people do not fight, do not grab, no trouble, even the grandmother occasionally prick children, she just do things well, the words are good, and finally let others no thorns can pick.


Work in an orderly manner, housework is meticulous, even if my father quarrel, never won the red in the face. Perhaps reading can not teach people to her way of doing things, but the study gave her calm attitude.


A daughter can not pick the wrong daughter, mother naturally respect.


Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where? Reading and not reading a woman, what is poor where?


My mother said to me: "Do not look at me without my family and no dowry, but the wisdom of reading is my best dowry.


You have to remember that reading is not to make you rich, but to keep you calm. Reading is not to let you see the bustling, but let you endure loneliness. A person can not have a rich life, but not without rich life.



I never thought that the woman would be more noble than those who were keen on dressing up. After all, the appearance of the decision between the two people have no goodwill. But the connotation of the decision of the two people will not be together; three view also decided how long two people together.


Of course, will not let you become Andy, thousands of women are difficult to have an Andy. But at least, reading can make you a better yourself.


Read more women, even if they become full-time wife, but also know how to balance the relationship between family and self-value.


Woman to study, in order to become a temperature, understand the fun, will think of people, so that your life have more options. For those who do not want to meet you, do not and hate people together.


With the choice, only the dignity, with dignity, to choose their favorite people.


The book has its own Yan Ruyu, a good woman is like a book. Years carved her delicate and doing things, reading sublimation of her temperament and solemn.


Love reading a woman, no one will never love.

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