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The girl who decided not to take the university, how was it last?那個決定不考大學的女孩,最后怎么樣了?

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The girl who decided not to take the university, how was it last?那個決定不考大學的女孩,最后怎么樣了?
那個決定不考大學的女孩,最后怎么樣了?
我在公眾號后臺看到一個小朋友的留言,她上高二。跟我說,眼看著現在高三的學長學姐每天都活得特別累,覺得這樣的生活很可怕,看著他們在題海里苦苦掙扎的樣子,自己也壓力山大。


她暑假在一家手機專賣店里做促銷員,生意好的時候能賺到五六千一個月,比她剛大學畢業的表姐掙得還多。


她問我,在這個時代掙錢那么容易,上不上大學還有那么重要嗎?


有太多的工作可以提供從前只面對大學生們開放的高薪和福利,即便是從前被人輕視的藍領,如今也能輕易賺得盆滿缽滿。

 


年輕有太多優勢,唯有短視是不可回避的缺點。在我十幾歲乃至二十歲出頭的時候,也從沒有想過未來。那時我羨慕鄰居家的姐姐高中畢業就去做了銷售,不僅不用讀書、做試卷,還可以穿著美美的制服和高跟鞋,每個月也有好幾千元的收入。


那個姐姐跟我做了多年的鄰居,上學的時候其實成績不錯,努力一下,考個一本院校也不是沒有可能。可她覺得沖刺太辛苦,早早地便放棄高考,每天只是在家學學化妝,跑到附近的店里去打零工。


那幾年她做得順風順水,聽說簽下了好幾個大單。家里的家具都換了新的,家屬院里的老鄰居紛紛稱贊,說這孩子出息了,不比上過大學的差。


我大三那年,她失業了,坐在滿地煙頭的樓道中,嘆著氣:“我們這種靠青春吃飯的人,只要青春沒了,就什么都沒有了。你看看我,現在要怎么跟那些十八九歲、口齒伶俐的小姑娘競爭?”



她在家待了大概兩個月,然后找工作,卻四處碰壁。就在我快要放暑假時,聽到她要回老家的消息。她臨走時來跟我媽告別,說自己還有兩萬塊的積蓄,在城市里混不下去,希望在老家做點小生意,有個立足之地。此后我們再也沒有見過面。


我常常想起她。每當看到有類似“某初中少女月入十萬”的新聞時,我都會忍不住想,那會是她嗎?
The girl who decided not to take the university, how was it last?那個決定不考大學的女孩,最后怎么樣了?

學識決定眼界,眼界決定格局,而格局決定人的一生。


當我們年輕的時候,太容易盯住一點蠅頭小利,被一點利益蒙住雙眼,以為生活會永遠順遂,青春永遠不老。


可是當你年逾三十,臉上的膠原蛋白都被雨打風吹去,還跟身邊甜美可人的小姑娘推銷著同一款手機時;當你查出脂肪肝,陪客戶喝酒力不從心,卻還要跟你同公司出來的年輕人端著酒杯侃侃而談時,你要怎么辦呢?


我曾經跟一位做記者的朋友聊天。她采訪過許多生活在社會底層、痛苦不堪而又無力改變現狀的體力勞動者,對生活帶給他們的巨大慣性心有戚戚焉。我隨口說了句:“他們既然想要改變,為什么不能用業余時間去學點技能呢?”


她用那種“何不食肉糜”的眼神看了我一眼:“你以為他們都能跟我們一樣朝九晚五帶雙休?上班就是坐在電腦前分析一下數據、回郵件、做個PPT?讓你上班站八個小時,看你下班后還有沒有精力學習?”


“生活的慣性是很可怕的。”她說。


許多人一開始,選擇一份門檻低、含金量也低的工作。然后在日復一日的簡單重復中,一點點失去斗志和精力,隨波逐流,得過且過。找一個跟自己差不多的伴侶,兩個人一起陷入生活的泥潭,想要向前挪一步,比登天還難。


生命依然在繼續,生活卻早已停滯,停留在你無力改變的那個瞬間。往后的幾十年,都是那一天的簡單復制。



一紙大學文憑,不僅僅是某個領域的敲門磚,還是人擺脫生活慣性的出口。


享受更多的資源、認識更多的人、擁有更多的機會,才能擺脫之前那些短視的,甚至有些愚昧的觀點。


有時候人生的岔路,就是從一個機會開始,然后越走越遠,再也無法回頭。


我一位女友公司的司機,有嚴重的腰椎間盤突出,卻連一天假也不敢請。因為只要他休一天假,就意味著全勤獎和補助都泡了湯,收入折半,而家里還有要上學的女兒、沒有工作的妻子和年逾七十的老母。


他可以跳到其他地方工作,卻無法擺脫司機這個職業。從長途車換到公交車再換到商務車,所能做的只能是在那狹小的縫隙里翻轉騰挪。


那個男人,開了二十多年車,在一線城市中,拿著四千出頭的工資。每天除八小時的正常工作之外,有緊急采訪時,他也必須隨叫隨到。


他花了兩個月的工資,給上初中的小女兒報了一個數學培訓班。他說:“我一定要供她上大學,不為給我爭氣,只是想她以后不必像我一樣,只能困在這一種人生里,動彈不得。”


這就是我為什么依然想要像個老古板一樣,勸你好好讀書,勸你去考大學。并不是因為打工妹就比別人低賤卑微,也并不是因為除了這一條路之外別無他處可去。而是我太清楚,一個連學習都嫌累的人,很難咽下生活的苦。
The girl who decided not to take the university, how was it last?那個決定不考大學的女孩,最后怎么樣了?

那張文憑,雖然許不了你飛黃騰達,卻也至少在你想要擺脫某種苦難的時候,賦予你一點點能力和資格,幫你推開一扇新的門,給你更多的機會去選擇,去見識更大的世界。


對絕大多數人而言,受教育不是為了站上頂峰,而是為了不跌入谷底。

 

別讓生活把你困在二十幾歲。


看不清腳下的時候,不妨踮起腳尖伸長脖子,努力向遠處去望。


最后,祝所有今年參加高考的孩子們都能取得自己滿意的成績!

The girl who decided not to take the university, how was it last?

I am in the public background to see a child's message, she was on high school. Told me that the eyes of the senior students now learn the school every day to live particularly tired, think this life is terrible, watching them struggling in the sea of ??look like the way, their pressure mountain.


She summer vacation in a cell phone store to do promoters, business time can earn five or six thousand months, than she had just graduated from college cousin earn more.


She asked me, in this era to make money so easy, not on the university there is so important?


There are too many jobs can be provided only before the face of college students open high salaries and benefits, even the former was despised blue collar, and now can easily earn pours.

 



Young have too many advantages, only short-sighted is an unavoidable shortcomings. In my teens and even twenty years old, never thought about the future. At that time I envy my neighbor's high school graduation to do the sales, not only do not study, do papers, you can also wear beautiful uniforms and high heels, every month there are several thousand dollars of income.


That sister with my neighbors for many years, when the school actually good results, try, test a college is not impossible. But she felt sprint too hard, early to give up the college entrance examination, every day at home only school make-up, went to the nearby store to go odd jobs.


That years she was doing sailing, I heard that signed a few big single. Home furniture for a new, family courtyard of the old neighbors have praised, saying that the child interest, and not worse than the University on the poor.


I was that year, she was unemployed, sitting on the floor of the cigarette butts, sighed: "We rely on the young people to eat, as long as the youth did not, nothing on you look at me now How can you compete with those eighteen and nine years old, articulate little girl?



She stayed at home for about two months, and then find a job, but ran around. Just when I was going to summer vacation, I heard the news of her home. She came to tell my mother farewell, said he still has twenty thousand savings, in the city can not mix, hoping to do small business in the home, there is a foothold. Since then we have never met again.


I often think of her. Whenever I see a similar "a junior girl into the 100,000" news, I can not help but think that it will be her?



Knowledge determines the vision, vision to determine the pattern, and the pattern determines the person's life.


When we are young, too easy to pegged a little petty profits, was a little bit of blindfolded eyes, that life will always be smooth, youth is never old.


But when you are more than thirty years, the face of the collagen are the wind blowing the wind, but also around the sweet and pleasant little girl selling the same phone; when you find fatty liver, to accompany the customer drinking power, but But also with you with the company out of the young people holding a glass of eloquent, how do you want to do?


I used to chat with a friend who was a journalist. She interviewed many living in the bottom of society, painful and unable to change the status quo of manual workers, to bring their lives to their great inertia heart Qi Yan. I casually said: "Since they want to change, why can not spare time to learn skills?


She used the kind of "why do not eat meat," the eyes looked at me: "You think they can be the same with us nine to five with two days? Work is sitting in front of the computer to analyze the data, back to the mail, to be a PPT? Let you go to work for eight hours to see you after get off work there is no energy to learn?


"The inertia of life is terrible," she said.


Many people start, choose a low threshold, gold content is also low work. And then day after day in a simple repeat, a little bit of fighting spirit and effort, drift, too. Find a partner with their almost, two people together into the quagmire of life, you want to move forward step, more difficult than the ascension.


Life is still going on, life has long been stagnant, stay in the moment you can not change. The next few decades, are the simple copy of that day.



A university diploma, not just a certain area of ??stepping stone, or people out of the inertia of life exports.


Enjoy more resources, know more people, have more opportunities to get rid of those short-sighted, and even some ignorant point of view.


Sometimes the fork in life, is from a chance to start, and then farther and farther, no longer can not go back.


I am a girlfriend company driver, a serious lumbar disc herniation, but even a day leave did not dare to please. Because as long as he off a day off, it means that the attendance awards and subsidies are soaked soup, income half, and the family have to go to school daughter, no work wife and more than seventy of the mother.


He can jump to other places to work, but can not get rid of the driver of this career. From the long-distance car to the bus and then switch to the business car, can do is only in that narrow gap in the somersault.


That man, opened more than 20 years car, in the first-tier cities, holding the wages of four thousand dollars. Every day in addition to eight hours of normal work, there is an emergency interview, he must be on call.


He spent two months of wages, to the junior high school daughter reported a mathematical training. He said: "I must be for her to go to college, not for my promise, just want her later do not like me, can only be trapped in this kind of life, could not move.


This is why I still want to be like an old-fashioned, advised you to study hard, advise you to test the university. Not because the working girl is lower than others humble humble, nor is it because there is no other than this way to go elsewhere. But I am too clear, even a study of people who are tired, it is difficult to swallow the pain of life



That diploma, although you are not met, but also at least when you want to get rid of some kind of suffering, give you a little bit of ability and qualifications to help you push a new door, give you more opportunities to choose , To see a greater world.


For the vast majority of people, education is not to stand the peak, but not to fall into the bottom.

 


Do not let life sleep in your twenties.


Can not see the foot of the time, may wish to tiptoe stretch his neck, and strive to look to the distance.


Finally, I wish all the children this year to participate in college entrance examination can achieve their satisfaction with the results!
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